So, this is my life.

And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I'm still trying to figure out how that could be.

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

that means he likes you, part I

since i'm a huge fan of series, i'm starting yet another one on this blog.  i'm calling it, "that means he likes you."  i know that many of my readers happen to be single ladies (put your hands up!), and i also know that you could all use an encouraging male perspective every now and again.

am i a licensed relationship counselor? no, not yet.  but do i know men? yes. yes, i do.  

"HOW?" you ask. first and foremost, i am one.  second, i've dated hundreds -- maybe THOUSANDS! -- of men over the years, and i think i have a pretty good handle on how we all operate.  there are exceptions to every rule, but the rules are the rules for a reason.  moreover, stereotypes exist for a reason.  men are quite simple, really.  and i'm here to help.

one more thing: if you find yourself wondering if gay and straight men are similar enough that my perspective would be helpful/applicable, let me assure you that they are surprisingly similar.  i've listened to and sympathized with my girl friends' relationship woes and wins for a decade, and the experiences are basically the same.  like i said, men are quite simple.

without further ado, i offer you part I of the new series:

If he calls in late to work in order to sleep in and simply cuddle with you for a while longer, that means he likes you.

questions? comments? get at me.


Lifebeginsat30ty said...

Hehe. But I need to GET to the cuddling stage! Can you post one of these every day? Or at least one a week? *bats lashes*

tobethatguy said...

Cuddling 101: Don't put out.

In the beginning, cuddling is best served as the main course.


Lifebeginsat30ty said...

I like! Hm, let me rephrase that: I need to find someone I want to cuddle with ;) Or is on a geographic area close enough to actually cuddle ;))